Happy Monday to you and yours! Let’s start the work week with our newly ordered item #1 on my “ToDo List”:
- Create my “10 Morning Blessings / Gratitude List”:
- #1) I am so happy and grateful for when it is better that things did not work out the way you wanted them to. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #2) I am so happy and grateful for organizing images in an album. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #3) I am so happy and grateful for the blogosphere. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #4) I am so happy and grateful for when the worst player scores. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #5) I am so happy and grateful for sculpture in papier-mache. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #6) I am so happy and grateful for the books you plan to wire. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #7) I am so happy and grateful for drive-in trays hooked onto windows. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #8) I am so happy and grateful for when you finally remember where you recognize a person from. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #9) I am so happy and grateful for the munching of a herd of sheep. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- #10) I am so happy and grateful for frosty glasses. Thank you, thank you, thank you.
- And thank you for good news that is coming to me today!
- Complete my “Visual ToDo Breakdown List” for the Universe & Me.
- Ask Bard (or ChatGPT) the question of the day and implement the response. According to Abraham Hicks, how would you deal with a family member who has nothing nice to say about you? (see response below).
- Positive Dieting Steps for the Day: I am losing weight through (a) Intermittent Fasting, (b) Non-Fat Foods, (c) <2000 Calories, (d) Daily Exercises: I ate too many nuts this evening!
- Take Resveratrol: 3:15 pm.
- Put On Shin Cream: 3:15 pm.
- Daily Mediations (3 total) (with my “air conditioner” background video if possible). (a) Ask “Source” for Next Step, (b) “Dream Home” in Courtenay, and (c) “KWF Coin”. For my afternoon meditation today, just before drifting off to sleep, I asked the Universe to show me “The Next Step” in my journey!
- Work on “Bucket Dream List” (Add/Remove/Update). Nope.
- Work on “Vision Board & Video” (Add/Remove/Update). Nope.
- This evening do or record my “Act of Kindness”: I talked to the lady at Harris-Teeter who was fixing a display in the produce aisle. I told her that this is what Ray Kroc would do, and she should be the manager.
- Before going to bed, clutch my “Gratitude Rock” and record my “Main Blessing” for today: I’m getting more LoA work done these days, and I’m happy about that!
Ask Bard: According to Abraham Hicks, how would you deal with a family member who has nothing nice to say about you?
Bard’s Reply: While Abraham Hicks haven’t specifically addressed dealing with a family member with negativity towards you, their teachings on vibrational alignment and emotional mastery offer valuable guidance in such situations:
Focus on your own vibration: Hicks emphasize that your external reality primarily reflects your internal state. Instead of getting pulled down by the negativity, focus on maintaining your own high vibrational frequency through positive emotions, gratitude, and self-acceptance. This doesn’t mean ignoring the situation, but choosing to approach it with calmness and understanding.
Non-judgment and compassion: Avoid judging or blaming your family member for their negativity. Instead, practice compassion and understanding. Recognize that their negativity likely stems from their own inner struggles and limitations. By shifting your focus towards compassion, you detach yourself emotionally and prevent their negativity from lowering your vibration.
Setting boundaries: While compassion is important, it’s also crucial to set healthy boundaries. If your family member’s negativity becomes abusive or toxic, you have the right to limit your interactions or distance yourself. This decision doesn’t reflect negativity back, but prioritizes your own well-being and creates a space for your higher vibration to flourish.
Lead by example: Instead of trying to change your family member directly, focus on embodying the positive state you desire. By consistently radiating joy, peace, and unconditional love, you create a powerful vibration that can subtly influence your surroundings. Remember, you can only control your own energy, not theirs, but living your truth can inspire a shift in others over time.
Focus on solutions: If you wish to engage with your family member, approach it with the intention of finding solutions rather than dwelling on negativity. Seek a calm and neutral space for open communication. Focus on understanding their perspective without getting defensive. Try to identify the root of their negativity and explore potential solutions that could improve the relationship.
Trust the Law of Attraction: Ultimately, Hicks believe in the Law of Attraction, where your thoughts and emotions shape your reality. By consistently focusing on your own well-being, radiating positive energy, and setting healthy boundaries, you attract experiences and relationships that resonate with your higher vibration. Your family member’s negativity may not magically disappear, but your inner peace and alignment can create a more positive and fulfilling environment for yourself.
Remember, navigating family dynamics can be complex, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Hicks’ teachings provide a framework for approaching such situations with self-awareness, compassion, and a focus on your own emotional well-being. By trusting your intuition and taking conscious action, you can navigate these challenges in a way that aligns with your highest self.
I hope this provides helpful insights from Abraham Hicks’ teachings and empowers you to handle the situation with your family member in a way that protects your inner peace and promotes positive growth.
I had to go get my allergy shot this morning. I thought I would have time to stop off at Panera Bread for a coffee, but time just got away from me. Nonetheless, I did have a chance to get a “Cup O’ Joe” on the way back home. I also had time to take a pic of Panera Bread’s “other side” entrance (see photo to the left), and the handicapped parking area which is on the far right in this photo.
If you will recall, yesterday I created a template for my “Visual ToDo Breakdown List”. The idea was that today would be the first time I used it, but after carefully relistening to the video that mentioned this template, I see that there are other aspects that need to be resolved in order to make this whole process work. I’m working on them today, and it might take me the rest of the week in order to finish them all off. In the end though, I believe that I will have a routine that will help me to focus more on my alignment and bring more of what I’m visualizing into reality as well. Stay tuned!
Just before I had a nap this afternoon (and my afternoon meditation I might add), I went through the list of other aspects again, and put in bold and underline text, the points to focus on. These are the areas I need to focus on.
